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The first message after a date – how to conquer a beauty?

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Men who decide to meet hot Ukrainian brides online often go on a date to make sure that their choice is correct. The meeting goes flawlessly – a beautiful girl with a rich inner world will be great company for the evening. But how to behave after the meeting? 

In today’s world, more and more often communication takes place in the format of SMS messages. It can be a chat on a social network or instant messenger. Before sending another SMS, there is always time to think about its appropriateness and correctness. It remains to figure out what to write. 

If you liked the girl 

First of all, don’t forget about caution. Attractive Slavic women love active men, but excessive pressure after the date can scare them away. First, you need to determine the optimal time for the message after the dating.   

It’s believed that a simple question about how your new acquaintance got home should be asked a couple of hours after parting. This SMS will not have a clear connotation and will show the politeness of the man. 

You should make a simple compliment or recall a funny event of the evening. If during the walk you managed to make the woman laugh, we can assume that the rendezvous went off with a bang. Therefore, pleasant memories for a couple will be an excellent occasion for re-communication.

Texting a new girl every minute, leaving her no opportunity to collect her thoughts, isn’t worth it. Each Slavic lady has her own character, which can be recognized from the first minutes of communication: 

  • - shy girls need their approach, although some of them reveal themselves during online chatting;
  • - more open people are equally sociable both in life and on the web (they will gladly respond to SMS if the partner is interesting);
  • - self-confident beauties are harder to conquer because they already hear numerous compliments from men. In this case, it’s worth carefully considering the first message after a date to be “the one”.

The easiest way to continue communication after the meeting in real life is to thank her for a wonderful evening. If the girl reciprocates, you may safely proceed to action. Conversations about ordinary things will gradually develop into more frank ones. The man will be able to find the woman’s preferences, and then make her dreams come true. 

If the girl turned out to be “the wrong one” 

Mutual antipathy will be evident at once, in this case, you can keep pleasant memories of the evening and not continue chatting. However, if the girl shows obvious interest, and the man wants to go in search of another Slavic woman, silence may cause misunderstanding. 
Message after the meeting is necessary, you should thank for the company by offering to stay friends. Honesty is the first thing you need to start communicating with someone you don’t know. The lady will know that you don’t count on a continuation and will be able to plan a further life without you. 

There are situations when the first impression is deceptive. Difficulties in communication on the date are often solved in instant messengers. A message after the meeting or the next day, without any subtext, can develop into a friendly dialogue that leads to a second date. 
If you’re not sure what to do next, you can start a casual conversation with a message about the topic you touched on at the meeting. It could be movies, hobbies, or discussing the good/bad food in the restaurant or café you’ve visited together. Often simple phrases lead to an open and pleasant dialogue that has a logical continuation.  

What to do if the girl wrote first? 

Not all sexy Ukrainian women https://romancecompass.com/dating/ukrainian-brides/ are waiting for the initial step from a man – many take the initiative from the first minutes of communication. If you get an SMS after a rendezvous, don’t pause too long. Try to answer it as quickly as possible so as not to miss the lady of your heart.

The main thing is not to write that you missed her from the last meeting. The lady may misunderstand this phrase, and find you too annoying. Everyone had their own life before they met, so you should move to the next stage of the relationship gradually. When you realize that communication is moving in the right direction, don’t hesitate to talk about your feelings – the woman will appreciate your openness and reciprocate.

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